Have you ever noticed how our thoughts about being busy can change from day to day?
Today we are leaving for our beach vacation, and this week has been sort of a flurry of getting ready to be gone for a couple of weeks.
Arrangements had to be made for pet care, going to post office to hold the mail, returning library books, etc. It’s funny how long the To Do list gets.
Thursday we had errands to run in a neighboring town and I was in one of those relaxed modes. We weren’t in a hurry, got all our things done, and were on our way home.
We were enjoying our scenic country ride when a car suddenly got on my tail. Obviously, they were in a hurry. I didn’t want to be rushed, so I took the next road on the right, which also goes to my house.
The other car went straight. Whew. Peace.
Around the next straightaway, we were blessed with seeing a glorious gift.
They were in the road because they’d gotten out of their fence. I parked. We just watched. Then, I drove to the next farm house and to let someone know. Before I even got to the steps, I heard honking.
As a car approached the four horses in the road, it blared its horn, passed by them, then sped away. Hmm. Talk about a hurry.
Turns out, those horses knew right where to go and we watched as they walked down the road and made a right turn down a long lane and were met by their owners. Pretty neat.
We continued on our way. A few miles later, another car was right behind my truck again! Not wanting to be rushed, I pulled in to a cemetery to let him pass.
Instead of getting right back on the highway, we parked and got out.
Good move. While he played, I sat with my back against a giant pine tree.
Have you ever done that? Sat next to a tree? It’s amazing to just sit still, listen and look about.
There’s a dairy farm to the right, and the cows were grazing. The sun was shining, the wind was whispering, and there was a sense of comfort in the air.
The next day, we had more errands, more driving and what I thought was, a time crunch. Rush, rush, rush. At one point, while we were in our small town, Little Bit suggested going for a walk.
Hmmm. A walk. I thought about it for a second. Well…we have all this stuff to get done, and another town to drive to, blah, blah, blah.
We didn’t go for walk and instead, got stuck in busy.
After our errands, we went home. Later, when I was finishing my chores and had my hands in a sink full of dishes, I thought about the difference between to two days. No hurry vs hurry.
Honestly, I realized that “hurry” is simply a matter of perspective. If Tbursday and Friday had been swapped, I’d have been in a hurry Thursday and would’ve missed the horses because I wouldn’t have taken that right turn. If I’d been rushed, we wouldn’t have stopped at the cemetery.
On the flip side, if we hadn’t been rushed Friday, we may have gone for a walk on a beautiful, sunny day instead of rushing from one place to the next.
That lesson? Minutes tick by every single day whether we’re in a hurry or not. Period. I stood there at my sink wishing for a rewind. Wanting to go back to that sidewalk earlier in the day… and the chance for a stroll with my Little Bit.
What I decided is, the next time we won’t wait. The next time we will step out of busy and definitely take the walk.