Ten years ago, a friend and I both wanted to write a book. The trouble was, we were both stumped on how to go about doing it.
We decided to do a 30 Book Writing Challenge where we would alternate days , each choosing a topic for one chapter. At the end of 30 days, we’d each have a 30 chapter book.
30 chapters on various subjects in 30 days was challenging because to have a book make sense, it helps if it’s focused on one central theme.
My book was called, “Me and My Kola.” My Kola is my boy.
I geared all of the daily chapter topics to being a mom and things we did that tied into that subject. At the end of each chapter, I added a challenge for readers to do.
For instance, some of those topics included:
- Butterflies
- Old Photos
- Grandmas
- County Fair
- My Favorite Book
- Ice Cream
- Celebrate
- Pets
- Beautiful Things
Writing that many different things in 30 days was fun and exhausting! Ha ha. But, we pushed through it.
My very favorite one is called, “100 Things I Love About My Kid.” Reading it now is quite a treat. Things I’ve forgotten about that we had done are there on the page.
At the end of the 100 things about him, the challenge was to write 100 things about whoever was reading’s child. I told about telling my momma that I wished she’d make one of things she loved about me.
She did.
I was reading over her list this morning, and my oh my, what a gift it is to have now, 10 years later. She passed last March and you know how much mommas are missed when they’re gone.
So, today I thought I’d put the idea out there for you to maybe make a list of things you love about your kids or spouse or parents or friends or siblings or family, just because.
I’ve never done one for my husband, I think I’ll do that. I’ve done them for my mom and my dad. Here’s a link to my dad’s I did in 2019, if you’d like to see it.
https://unmeasuredjourneys.com/2016/06/19/
I’d love to know if you make a list of things you love about somebody. It doesn’t have to be 100 things, if that seems too hard. Maybe start with 10 or 20, then build from there.
Thank goodness we did that book challenge so long ago. Because of it, I have that wonderful list from my momma. Nothing better than that.

Thanks for being here! Hope you have a lovely day!
Jessica
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One would think that a 100 things would be difficult to collect … but I’m sure, once you get started, it’s going to be quick-quick until you hit that 100 mark!
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Hi. It certainly does sound like a high number at the beginning, but like you said, it starts going quicker. I finally found my post about my momma where I wrote 70 things I loved about her for her 70th birthday. That’s a gift to have, too.
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That is a great idea! I tend to make lists about lots of things, so making a list about what I love about someone is a natural next step.
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Yay!!!! ❤️
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I love this idea!!
I may try to do that for my son tonight!!
Thank you for sharing!
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Good morning! You’re welcome. I’d love to hear about it when you do!
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What a wonderful idea! When my mom turned 90, I put together a binder filled with pages about my mom. I have that binder now, and it is a treasure. But, I never thought of making such a list for my kids or my husband. My daughter turns 40 this year. Hmmm. Now I have my thinking cap on. This could be a way to make her birthday really special. And we will be celebrating it together when we are in Pentwater this summer. Thanks, Jessica!!!
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Aww! Love that you did that for your mom!!! How special for you to have it now. That sounds like a wonderful gift for your daughter’s 40th birthday. Trust me, there’s nothing better than knowing what our moms love about us.
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So great that your mom did that for you!
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Thank you. I feel pretty lucky.
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What a sweet thing to do. I love your ideas.
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Hi. Thanks so much. It’s fun digging through memories, coming up with stuff, too. It’s stops time, essentially.
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